Can Obama change how African-American community views same-sex marriage?
President Obama speaks in Washington May 8, 2012. / AP Photo
(The New Republic) There are many reasons to be glad that President Obama has finally decided to stop dissimulating and openly advocate gay marriage. Not least among them is that he is no longer giving tacit approval to a prejudice in the African-American community that becomes more awkward and regrettable by the year.
Homophobia, to be sure, is a sadly universal phenomenon. But it is one with especially deep roots among blacks. Polling numbers bear this out. In a recent Pew poll, 65 percent of American blacks reported thinking of homosexuality as wrong, while only 48 percent of whites did; in other words, most blacks harbored this prejudice, while fewer than half of whites did. Also, black voters played a disproportionate role in getting the anti-gay-marriage Proposition 8 passed in California in 2008.
The central role of Christianity in black America has much to do with this. It explains why views like these are not uncommon even among black people whom you might least suspect.
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I recall the head of an organization dedicated to helping ex-welfare mothers and other poor people asking me to sit on her board. On the basis of indications I had received about her organization -- and because I knew it was closely affiliated with a church -- I stated that I would be glad to do so only on the condition that the group did not have an anti-gay policy. The woman openly told me that they indeed did; she went on to reference the teachings of the Bible, which she considered unarguably sacrosanct, in explaining why. This from someone with reserves of empathy deep enough to commit her life to helping others in need.
The Bible is a highly fragile basis of reasoning here. As Pastor Susan Schneider in Wisconsin has recently noted, the Bible "has passages that prohibit men from cutting their hair, and that forbid anyone from wearing mixed fiber clothing, or planting two different kinds of seed in their fields, or eating shellfish. The Bible also commands slaves to obey their masters, parents to stone unruly children, and upholds as heroes of the faith men with multiple wives and concubines." This is a slam-dunk textual argument: It's clear that black religious communities -- like so many others -- harbor a simple revulsion at the notion of homosexuality.
But by referencing the Bible's views on slavery, Schneider's exegesis also highlights the particularly tragic irony that saturates black homophobia. Throughout its history, black America has pleaded and fought with the rest of the country to convince them to overcome the primal tendencies of bigotry. This makes black homophobia especially problematic. That's not pretty to state, but it's true and it needs to be fixed.
Unfortunately, President Obama's reticence on marriage equality gave tacit backing to this backwardness. It was awkward enough that he was a member of a church with a racially impolitic pastor like Jeremiah Wright. Yet that was at least understandable: The anti-whitey routines were hardly all or even most of what Wright preached every Sunday, and Obama needed to attend a popular and culturally rooted black church to have bona fides in the black Chicago community. In other words, Obama's choice of church was easily understood as a commitment to a community, not a statement of deeply-held belief.
But the quiet succor Obama gave to black homophobes with his "evolving" line on gay marriage was always just as ugly as it was unnecessary -- plus, for someone of his demographic and biography, it was more than a little fake. (Did the Harvard Law Review Editor hugging Derrick Bell in that 1991 video really think two men shouldn't be allowed to get married?)
Of course, President Obama is above all a political leader of the entire nation, not just the black community. But with black America straggling behind in the history of gay liberation, Obama is now serving as a useful cultural model. If he can convince the African-American community that it can maintain our community's religion while abandoning bigotries that religion can thrive without, we will truly be moving forward.
John McWhorter is a contributing editor for The New Republic. The opinions expressed in this commentary are solely those of the author.
If you answer yes to any or all of these questions you would have to be out of your mind to vote for Obama. If the economy and spending continue at this pace all social and environmental issues will not matter in least.
One of the big reasons why out of wedlock birth is becoming more common is that many straight men don't actually contribute much financially or otherwise to their families. If you want to restore the institution, focus on those issues rather than using scripture to justify unequal treatment.
Those who want to stand in place of God don't respect God or anybody but themselves (or clones). It is those mentalities who oppose gay marriage. Indeed, they show a flagrant disrespect for the first condition of salvation: free will. I submit, therefore, that they are not so much concerned with establishing God's Kingdom or saving the souls of their brothers and sisters as they are in aggrandizing themselves through legal statute.
The only difference between American slavery and ancient slavery is that the ancients didn't impose slavery on people of one skin color. Slavery has always been and always will be an abomination that can not be defended with any ethical or moral argument.
There is no way to claim that banning gay couples from marrying is any better than it was to forbid blacks and whites from marrying.
To have no faith is to have no hope for the future,and if you convince people they have no chance of a better future they will turn on each other.
You don't need faith to have hope for the future anymore than you need faith to tell you what is moral and what isn't.
Ethics are principles of self-evident social balance just as conduct rules balance a football game: they effect neither advantage nor disadvantage to one side nor the other. Morales, on the other hand, are rules of abstract, spiritual balance conferred or dictated on men by an invisible, abstract deity.
As the most vulnerable to any ethical compromise of American Justice, Blacks should be TERRIFIED of meeting any morale criteria codified as American Law. The abstract nature of such definitions are always susceptible to misinterpretations and mischaracterizations that allow unscrupulous people to victimize and exploit the most vulnerable members of our society.
I am not gay, but I accept that gay couples calling themselves "married" are not going to change my relationship with my wife, my children, with my church or country. I just remind myself that the same religious logic that some are now spouting to legally suppress gays from marrying was also used to enslave my ancestors for nearly three hundred years.