AP/ February 8, 2013, 8:39 PM

Kids rewarded for good manners at Wash. restaurant

This photo provided by Laura King shows a receipt for dinner at Sogno di Vino in Kingston, Wash.

This photo provided by Laura King shows a receipt for dinner at Sogno di Vino in Kingston, Wash. / AP Photo

SEATTLE To Laura King, her three children were acting normal while enjoying dinner at an Italian restaurant in their hometown in Washington state.

But staffers of the restaurant Sogno di Vino in Poulsbo were so impressed with her children's table manners during their Feb. 1 dinner that they thanked her kids and gave the family of five a bowl of ice cream.

It wasn't until King got home that that she noticed a $4 "well behaved kids" discount on her receipt to cover the dessert. A friend posted a picture of the receipt on the website Reddit, and the story took off.

"The server said staff didn't even know there were kids at the table," said King, whose children are 2, 3, and 8 years old.

King said it's been entertaining to see all the attention her story has gotten, and she plans to dine at Sogno di Vino again soon.

Sogno di Vino owner Rob Scott said servers have the discretion to offer a discount to customers, adding that this wasn't the first time well-behaved kids have been rewarded. What was different this time was that one of the staffers wrote it out in the receipt.

"It was just an act of kindness," Scott said.

Scott said the restaurant was packed the night Laura's family came in, which can be challenging to families with small children. But he said he was impressed with the way the family was interacting with each other and that even the 2-year-old on a high chair seemed to be having a good time.

Rowdy children are an issue all restaurant customers have encountered at one point or another, Scott said.

"You can tell when a (family) had a rough ride to the restaurant," Scott said. "There tends to be sometimes activities where children get out of the chair or stand on chairs or get loud, as they get loud, it upsets other patrons, and they paid for a baby sitter."

Scott said he's been asked if he would charge more to customers who have unruly children. That's not something he does, he said.

"Everybody in my generation was raised to behave in restaurants," he said. "That parenting skills have been forgotten in some cases."

King said she has worked in the restaurant industry before and knows that families aren't the easiest customers to serve. She said that at the restaurant, her kids apply the table etiquette used at her dining table.

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washmohickory says:
Wonder how he was raised: Spare the rod and spoil the child?
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What-the-fudge says:
Impressed all around...except for a couple of the stupid comments here. Heh.
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amy-derson says:
Want to read about good children...check out the book Mr. Jennifer, by Richard Sellers.
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hdc77494 says:
Try to ignore the bad, and reinforce the positive. Works (almost) every time.
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Solarrays247 says:
Great story. Intelligent and loving parents. I raised my son and daughter to behave appropriately in restaurants and other public places. They in turn are raising their children in the same manner. We always enjoyed our outings and each other. Beautiful memories.
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tmonta67 says:
Ok, now I know I've crossed the line into being "officially old" (although not yet 50).

Kids behaving in restaurants now merits that one take special note (in writing no less) and they be given a prize?

While the gesture by the restaurant was well-intended, what does this say about our society?

Circling the drain..........
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mark648 replies:
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I agree with your assessment. In a lot of cases the children behave better than the so-called "adults".
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KPeters_from_UK says:
I'm all for it. I wish more restaurants did the same.
I can't stand it when parents think that everyone else is suppose to like their children and thus ignore the fact they are free to roam around and play near my table. Hate it.
I never allowed my children to leave the table or use outdoor voices. It isn't fair to the other people who sometimes have saved their money to spend on a descent meal.
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NinthSt78 says:
Outstanding waiters and fine dining is also found near the 700 Club in Virginia.
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Social_Adjudicator says:
Exceptional on the part of, Sogno di Vino in Poulsbo. What a message to send, kudos!
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ordinary_citizen says:
Love this story...that how it was long time ago. Now a days, bad behavior kids got all the attention by getting their own shows. So, sad :( I would like kids like this and parents like this get a show for themself to remind today people that this is the meaning of civilization.
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