CBS News/ November 6, 2012, 4:19 AM

Minn. couple accused of starving adopted son, 8

MINNEAPOLIS A Minnesota couple are accused of starving their 8-year-old adopted son, feeding him only liquid and putting an alarm on his door so he would not steal food, according to criminal charges that say the boy was so malnourished his bones protruded and he weighed as much as a child half his age.

Mona Hauer and Russell Hauer, of North Mankato, each are charged with six felonies, including neglect and malicious punishment of a child. In addition to starving the boy, authorities said, they beat him with a broom handle and made him sleep in a sled in the basement because he wet the bed.

Online court records did not say whether the Hauers, who also have a biological child and adopted two of the boy's siblings, have an attorney. Multiple calls to the family's home went unanswered Monday and the voicemail box was full.

The complaint, filed Friday, said Mona Hauer brought the boy to Mayo Clinic Health Systems-Mankato on Oct. 9 because she thought he had vomited blood. She said the boy had eating issues and had been regurgitating his food for months.

He weighed just 34.8 pounds and was 3 feet, 5 inches tall -- about the weight of an average 4-year-old when measured on standard growth charts. The complaint said the boy was "very thin, his bones were protruding, and his abdomen was distended."

He was transferred to Rochester and found to have a slow heartbeat, anemia, brain atrophy and delayed bone growth due to malnutrition, the complaint said. He remained hospitalized Friday and was on a diet to increase his weight. The hospital would not release his status Monday.

Nicollet County Social Services officials would not comment on the case, or say whether the other children remained in the home. Le Sueur County Human Services, which handled social services in this case, referred questions to the Nicollet County attorney, who was in court and did not return a message seeking additional details Monday.

The boy told officials the couple made him sit at the table and drink a liquid diet while the rest of the family ate. He said at times he was so hungry he ate dirty food from a compost site. He told doctors he didn't brush his teeth and regurgitated his food "because he wanted the taste of food and he did not know when he would eat again," the complaint said.

Mona Hauer told authorities she and her husband slept outside the boy's bedroom for up to a year so he would not steal food. Then they moved his room to the basement and put an alarm on his door, the complaint said.

The boy said he was given a bucket to go to the bathroom at night, and had to clean it himself in the morning. One of the other children was responsible for hosing him off two to three times a week with a garden hose, the complaint said.

The other children told authorities the boy was "naughty" and stole food, according to the complaint.

At the time of the boy's adoption, a doctor found he had experienced trauma that would require intensive psychotherapy. The doctor gave several recommendations, but the Hauers did not follow through, the complaint said.

Mona Hauer, who home-schools all the children, told authorities the family practices what she called "holistic medicine" and only goes to doctors in serious situations. She told authorities she put the boy on a liquid diet after talking with a chiropractor, according to the complaint.

The chiropractor told authorities he hoped the liquid meal would be digested before the boy could regurgitate it, but that he did not intend it to be the boy's only nourishment.

The complaint said Mona Hauer told authorities the boy's eating habits were his "attempt to be in control of the home and that (he) had in fact controlled the home for some time." She also said she didn't think he was too thin.

Russell Hauer told medical staff that he and his wife withheld food from the boy at least once as a form of punishment, the complaint said. He also told officials the boy "had won or gotten his way" when he was taken to the hospital.

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gr8mom24 says:
What sickens me is that there are thousands of parents who would give anything to give a child a warm, loving home. The very fact that these parents continued to blame the child for being a child (a very hungry one at that)to the authorities, prove that they are the ones that need to be psycotherapy. All the children need to be removed from the home, and placed with families who will treat all of them like they are people, and not brainwash one against the other.
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rwsmith29456 says:
Wicked is the word for both of these people. And I don't mean the fun kind of wicked.
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AdamPertman says:
I'd like to raise the question of why "adopted" is used to describe the boy in the headline and initially in the story. Is the implication that abuse occurred because the boy was adopted? If someone abuses their biological child, is the adjective "biological" introduced into the story? I have nothing against using adoption for descriptions if they are relevant, but where is the relevance here? I'd be happy to talk to the reporter: Adam Pertman, Executive Director of the Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute, apertman@adoptioninstitute.org.
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MIO42 replies:
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Adopted is used because Adopted Children stand to be abused at far greater frequense than Bioogical Children
Why ? You ask ,because humans do this
Lots of data on it, do the Homework
Will it ever change
Most likely NOT

Nothing to be proud of !
STBY21 replies:
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I agree Adam. Many children are abused at the hands of biological parents, but the word "biological" doesn't make it in the headline nor should the word adopted. Part of the reason in the need for good foster homes and adoption agencies is because of the abuse suffered by children in the homes with their biological families. Abuse is abuse, no disclaimers or excuses.

Adam, thank you for what you do.
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john92021 says:
you can get more work out of them if you feed them. They say adoption is too difficult, obviously not.
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ljanycchar says:
I agree with every commenter. Ignorant, bullies that call themselves parents, or adoptive or foster ones (the worst kind) because they seek out children only to use, abuse and mistreat them, should all be killed out right...along with pedophiles and other child abusers, shild sex trafficers. there is nothing human about these people, they offer nothing positive or productive in this society, and any and all children would be far better without them. this country professes to be so progressive, so "humane" when it comes to everything (hypocritically so) but our children. Shame on any and everyone who is responsible for the detriment of any child in this country. I hope, pray and wish to God that each and every one of you suffer the most severe events in your miserable lives. I don't need to pray for anyting else but that and truly truly mean it.
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readg821 says:
It 's sickening to read what evil adults did to a helpless child-even worse that they brainwashed the rest of the kids into thinking this child needed to be punished...for "stealing" food"!!! Some adopted children have starved before placement and need the reassurance of available food.They may even hoard food & hide it. The response of the adoptive parents was vicious and bizarre. Because the children were home schooled, the parents could control their families interaction with the outside world. The adoption agency needed to follow up very closely, especially given the prior history of this child. Under staffing, budget woes, whatever their reason, there is no excuse for what happened! I speak as a parent of 3 siblings with a significant family history,
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skeezix06 says:
Reality is that supervision or follow up is costs money. Every time people demand lower taxes, this is one of the first places they go to cut budgets. Children have no voice, no power, no legal status. That is why there is no supervision or real follow up in cases of known abuse, let alone a simple adoption which is what this appears to have started out as.
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tomanyt replies:
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Skeezix06...The reality is that once an adoption is finalized, there are no more visits from social services.
skeezix06 replies:
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TomanyT. Reality is that children who are disabled and/or too old and/or the wrong color do not get adopted.
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americalove1 says:
We adopted our son at birth. We became foster parents in order to adopt after we weren't able to have any more children naturally.

It was the greatest moment of our lives, along with his sister's birth. Both were treated the same with a great deal of love, affection, and attention.

Both grew up healthy, happy, and very loved. We have thanked God every single day for both of them.

Never would we have thought to treat any child like this. He's now 21, is in college, and works part time. Neither he nor his sister were ever neglected or mistreated in any way. Our grand kids are teens now and they're all very close.

I don't know any adopted parents who would have behaved this way, nor have ever heard of any in our local news. Most adoptive parents love their adopted children very much.

These people should be given the death penalty. They're not worth being treated a shuman beings. Unfortunately, that won't happen. I pray the other chidren were put in good homes.
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tmonta67 says:
I fail to see how this could have happened to an adopted child known for his traumatic past and requiring "intensive therapy" from the onset. Where was the follow-up from the placement agency, from child protection services? For this child to have been discovered in an advanced stage of neglect and abuse means that this "adoption" was not monitored for the child's or family's adjustment and progress. Heads should roll for this--and not only those of the "parents".

Appalling!!
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tomanyt replies:
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As an adopted child I can tell you that once an adoption is finalized there are no more visits from social services.
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ttipbc says:
Take away the children & kill these $h!tty excuses for parents. First, starve them for a couple of months, then kill them.
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lifeduringwartime replies:
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Right on, eye for an eye when you hurt a kid. Lead poisoning behind the ear after six months of the liquid diet.
askagain replies:
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MojitoMamma - It is sad how cases like this fall through the cracks. At the same time, government can't be everywhere all of the time. No matter how many laws are passed, incidents like this happen. It was, in fact, the perfect storm where the incident went unnoticed until the boy was taken to a hospital and the hospital staff realized that something was terribly wrong.
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