AP/ June 26, 2012, 5:26 PM

Pentagon marks gay pride month for first time

Two women, both active duty sailors in the Navy who gave their names as Nikki, left, and Lisa, kiss as they march in the Gay Pride Parade in San Diego Saturday, July 16, 2011. Almost a year later, the Pentagon marked gay pride month for the first time by hosting a panel discussion.

Two women, both active duty sailors in the Navy who gave their names as Nikki, left, and Lisa, kiss as they march in the Gay Pride Parade in San Diego Saturday, July 16, 2011. Almost a year later, the Pentagon marked gay pride month for the first time by hosting a panel discussion. / AP Photo/Gregory Bull

(AP) WASHINGTON - In the course of a year, Marine Capt. M. Matthew Phelps says he went from being a gay man "in the closet," afraid of being discharged, to invitee at the White House gay pride reception, drinking champagne with his commander in chief.

Phelps told his story Tuesday at the Pentagon's first-ever event to recognize the service of gay and lesbian troops. The historic event came nine months after repeal of the 18-year-old "don't ask don't tell" policy that had prohibited gay troops from serving openly and forced more than 13,500 service members out of the armed forces.

"Last June ... I was at a point in my career that if anyone had found out that I was gay ... I could have lost my job," Phelps told some 400 uniformed and civilian Defense Department employees packed into a Pentagon auditorium.

"A year later ... I, Capt. Matthew Phelps, was invited to attend this pride reception at the White House," Phelps said of the June 15 reception hosted by President Barack Obama. "And I thought how amazing is it over the course of a year, I could go from being fired for being who I am, to having champagne with the commander in chief — on cocktail napkins with the presidential seal on it."

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Phelps appeared on a panel of current and former service members, some of whom told of their experiences before the repeal of "don't ask don't tell" and how life is different now. The audience filled the seats and dozens more stood along the walls, roughly 1 in 5 were in uniform and the rest civilians who had not been subject to the old policy.

"For those service members who are gay and lesbian, we lifted a real and personal burden from their shoulders," top Pentagon lawyer Jeh Johnson said in a speech opening the event that lasted about an hour and a half. "They no longer have to live a lie in the military" or "teach a child to lie to protect her father's career."

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Before the repeal, gay troops could serve but could be discharged if they revealed their sexual orientation. At the same time, a commanding officer was prohibited from asking a service member whether he or she was gay.

"For all of us, we should honor the professional and near-flawless manner in which our entire U.S. military implemented and adapted to this change," Johnson said of the months since repeal.

Although some had feared repeal would cause problems in the ranks, officials and gay advocacy groups say there have been a few isolated incidents but no big issues — aside from what advocacy groups criticize as slow implementation of some changes, such as benefit entitlements to troops in same-sex marriages.


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lgeubank says:
Pentagon Pines for Perverts and Panties

They succumb to the gay "pride" nonsense.
And they knuckle under to women who want to play soldier in submarines and combat roles.
Pentagon fogies don't have the guts they expect from real military men.
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Indy_Jones says:
First year - monumental - fine. But celebrating all the separate categories of individuals seems to create more division rather than cohesion...and isn't that what we need in our military? I don't necessarily have a problem with same-sex couples but I do have a problem with a small subset of our population constantly forcing us to acknowledge their way of life. Whether it is biological, a choice or a curiousity, I don't really care. I just don't want it shoved into my face every single day. There are probably more restrictions on religion in the military now than there are on sexuality. Maybe we need a Religious Pride month or heterosexual pride month or a White Male Conservative pride month since those are all subsets of our population too. Seems like a silly question on my part but all the celebrations of individuality do take away from what should be our greater ambition to achieve inclusiveness and cohesion within our society. We are all Americans, period.
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KarlStalin says:
Turkey ups the ante with Syria, meanwhile back in Washington the Obama Pentagon is focused on rolling out the carpet for their army's homosexual pride movement. Anything for political gain.....???

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Mike_in_USA says:
All armed services are a team. Even those super-human, perfect-walk-on-water special forces. It's about teamwork. An individual is awarded for the contribution to a team. (Others in the unit at whatever level). Now, the pentagon and white house are honoring these individuals for what they do with their private parts. The usmc captain should be ashamed of himself for accepting an honor based on his sexual orientation instead of his contributions. Is this what we have come to? Perhaps we should start displaying the US flag upside down, because we apparently have lost our way and need serious help.
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anberlin32 replies:
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"Now, the pentagon and white house are honoring these individuals for what they do with their private parts."

See, there's the problem. Rather than seeing gays and lesbians as people who have been unfairly singled out, and in many instances discharged, for what should be an irrelevant characteristic (same-sex attraction) you view it as some kind of special recognition absent of context that emphasizes gential arousal.
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formerlyluvnut says:
Heard during a firefight against a lone machine gunner where a bunch of GI's were in a huge mortar hole, one of which was gay. The Lt was screaming at the soldiers "SHOOT that c...S...er"!!!! Now, ya see the confusion?
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formerlyluvnut says:
Soooooooo glad I did my service when men were men and women were women, way back in time!
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AOCGUY replies:
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You must be extremely old. I mean really really ancient. BTW men are still men and womena re still women. And homosexuals have ALWAYS been in our ranks. Good chance in the bunk next to you. Sleep tight sweetie.
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Thank you for your service.