January 1, 2012 7:40 PM

The Majority Leader: Rep. Eric Cantor

Cantor wanted to introduce us to his family: his wife of 22 years, Diana; daughter Jenna, son Evan and the only child still at home, Michael. He told us something that surprised us: that his button-down dad likes rap music.

Eric Cantor: I do the Wiz Khalifa stuff and Jay Z, Lil Wayne.

Stahl: Is he cool?

Michael Cantor: He's cool. No one would ever know it, but he's cool.

And this is Diana's mother.

Eric Cantor: I call her Mumma B. Her name is Barbara.

Stahl: Your mother-in-law lives with you?

Eric Cantor: Absolutely. Absolutely. We couldn't do it without her.

Stahl: Obama, the president has the same thing.

Diana Cantor: Yeah. Yes.

Stahl: You actually have a connection.

Eric Cantor: Right--

Diana Cantor: We do. We talk about that a lot actually. Yeah.

Stahl: Have you talked with-- does the president know?

Eric Cantor: Yeah.

Diana Cantor: Yes, yes.

Eric Cantor: Uh-huh. (affirm)

When they met, Diana was working at Goldman Sachs in New York. She still works in finance - as a partner at an investment management firm.

Mumma B: When I met Eric, I saw that it's good to be Republican too.

Eric Cantor: There you go.

Both his mother-in-law and his wife were liberal Democrats and while they have converted to the Republican Party, their beliefs don't always jibe with the congressman's.

Stahl: So you're pro-choice?

Diana Cantor: I am.

Stahl: Gay marriage? What does that mean?

Diana Cantor: I don't-

Stahl: You disagree with him?

Diana Cantor: I do disagree. There's really that respect. If I expect him to respect my views that could be different, I certainly need to respect his.

Given his upbringing and his marriage, Cantor says he's nothing like the intractable obstructionist the Democrats say he is.

Cantor: Nobody gets everything they want. And so--

Stahl: That's just exactly your image: that you want only what you want.

Cantor: But it's just I hope I'm not coming across like that now, because it's just not who I am. I mean, it really is--



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